First Dance Tips…

Posted on April 16, 2007 by Christine | 24 Comments

Mike & I went to a wedding a few years ago that had the *longest* and most painful to watch first dance ever. It was bad. What made it even worse was knowing that the couple had spent MONTHS taking dance lessons and working out this “routine” for their first dance. The groom looked so miserable, concentrating to make sure he did not forget the steps and disappoint his new bride.

Ever since then, I’ve felt that there should be a 2 minute limit on first dances. Or open up the floor part way through the song to the guests. Give them something to do. Most importantly – have FUN. Fun is very important on your wedding day. But keep it *short*.

These two videos are making me rethink that sentiment. If you can put this much effort into your first dance, you are my hero.


[Via Anne Ruthman.]

I especially love that other people get into the action on the second one. Oh my goodness, that is FABULOUS. No one puts Baby in the corner! (Or rather no one puts James in the corner, as I learned from the UK news coverage of the video.)

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Comments

24 Responses to “First Dance Tips…”

  1. Shelly
    April 16th, 2007 @ 6:31 am

    Oh my gosh. I rarely ever take the time to stop and watch a video. Those had me crying, they are sooo sweet! I gotta quick link people over here so they can cry, too. Thanks for sharing them.

  2. A Quick Link
    April 16th, 2007 @ 6:43 am

    [...] I hardly ever take the time to watch a You Tube video when it’s in a post. Today, I did. Over at Big Pink Cookie, Christine posted two YouTube videos of couples having their first wedding dances. The first is hilarious. The second was so much fun it made me cry. If you like things like that (and even if you don’t) these are worth your time. Go take a look. [...]

  3. Nina
    April 16th, 2007 @ 6:48 am

    I absolutely love that Dirty Dancing one. I teared up. haha

  4. Shannon
    April 16th, 2007 @ 8:11 am

    Okay since two other people admitted it – I laughed and teared up at the same time when I watched those. Thanks for sharing them out!

  5. Sallie
    April 16th, 2007 @ 9:40 am

    So much fun! Thanks for sharing the videos.

  6. Que Sarah
    April 16th, 2007 @ 12:12 pm

    I’m so glad I’m not the only one that teared up during the second one – I got goosebumps! It was so right on :-) Thanks for sharing those – they were great!!! (much better than my first dance ;-) )

  7. Christine
    April 16th, 2007 @ 12:29 pm

    I didn’t tear up during the second one as much as I laughed hysterically. Then again, the insomnia may have played a role in that! :D

  8. laurie
    April 16th, 2007 @ 1:25 pm

    aww, these are so awesome! I teared up a little on the second too! thanks for sharing! :)

  9. FKC
    April 16th, 2007 @ 1:31 pm

    OMG these are FABULOUS! I really teared up at the Dirty Dancing one, what an amazing idea.

    Our first dance was LITERALLY my first dance in almost a year. We got a standing ovation just because I was able to do a twirl.

  10. s t a c i
    April 16th, 2007 @ 1:42 pm
  11. syd
    April 16th, 2007 @ 4:16 pm

    These made me so happy. Very cool.

  12. Kymberlie R. McGuire
    April 16th, 2007 @ 8:14 pm

    Hmmm. I think I was at that same wedding.

  13. gigglechick.com
    April 16th, 2007 @ 8:40 pm

    I NEED DANCE LESSIONS…

    okay – i wish i was at their wedding… [via big pink cookie]……

  14. FENICLE
    April 17th, 2007 @ 12:09 am

    Uh, I didn’t know you were at my wedding?

  15. Susan
    April 17th, 2007 @ 6:54 am

    See, I always wanted to learn how to line dance and how to do the two-step. I can dance to rock and stuff (or used to), but when it comes to slow dancing I feel like I have two left feet.

  16. Anne-Marie
    April 17th, 2007 @ 9:34 am

    I’m getting married in like five seconds and boy, I wish we could put on a show like that amazing 2nd Dirty Dancing video! That was awesome!

  17. Katherine
    April 17th, 2007 @ 1:56 pm

    Wow that’s pretty freaking cool! Loved the last one and I don’t think I’ve ever seen Dirty Dancing!

  18. Anne
    April 17th, 2007 @ 4:31 pm

    OMG.. that second one is sooooooo awesome!!! I can’t believe they did the entire thing WITH guests invovlement! Wow…. I laughed, I cried, I’m in awe. Thank goodness their videographer shared the video!!

  19. Katie
    April 18th, 2007 @ 4:34 pm

    Breakdancing at wedding = coolest thing ever!

  20. Rete
    April 21st, 2007 @ 11:49 pm

    Ok, I was laughing so hard I almost cried. Those were the best videos ever! I had to call my husband over to watch.

  21. Greg
    May 2nd, 2007 @ 1:29 pm

    Both videos are brilliant!! I hope I go to a fun wedding one day – though someone should probably tell the second bride that her husband’s gay, as he’s obviously not black…

  22. stacey
    June 16th, 2007 @ 2:55 am

    awwwwwww that is so sweet…….dirty dancing is my fav movie always has been since i was 6 y.o !!! so much effort to pull that off along side all the other plans for the ‘big day’, well done sets a precent that the dance dont have to be boring

  23. Wilbert
    December 12th, 2009 @ 8:01 pm

    Weddings are a lot of fun but I cant dance even if my life depended on it. Really funny video.

  24. Todd Chen
    December 30th, 2009 @ 12:52 am

    Really a great post!!
    Am a Hip Hop dance Trainer, NYC. I appreciate this effort to encourage dancing.

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